Mythbuster: It’s unusual for people with disabilities to be sexually assaulted.

Monday, February 8, 2010

A recent case in Lethbridge shows that this simply isn’t true. In fact, studies show that people with disabilities are at least 1.5 times more likely to be sexually abused than those without disabilities (Canadian Council on Social Development, 1988). The reasons for this are fairly straightforward – people with disabilities are often more vulnerable than abled people, because many need to rely on caregivers to help them perform routine tasks.  Additionally, society tends to place a lower value on people with disabilities, and they are often ignored or not believed if they do disclose abuse.

Many think people with developmental disabilities, need to be taught about sexual boundaries in order to prevent them from being victimized by sexual assault – essentially giving responsibility for any assault to the victim. Sexual assault is about the abuse of power and control by the perpetrator: it does not happen because victims permit the activity, and it does not happen because victims initiate the activity. It happens because other people take advantage of their vulnerable state.

It is not the responsibility of vulnerable people to prevent sexual assault happening, but the responsibility of those who have power over them to ensure they do not offend against them, and to allow them a safe space to express when they feel violated or uncomfortable.

Often it can be difficult for people with disabilities to report sexual assault. Some have challenges communicating, and many are not taught the proper language to express what has happened. This is because they are viewed by society at large as being asexual and not needing to understand the ins and outs of what consensual sexual activity is all about. Yet even without the language, people with disabilities can be deeply, deeply affected by any abuse of their bodies, and, like everyone else, have the right to have power and control over, and to make choices about their bodies.

The truth is sexual abuse and sexual assault has a powerful impact on the mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health of every survivor, regardless of ability.

Read MorePosted on Monday, February 8, 2010 at 10:53 AM

Mythbuster Monday: People should disclose abuse/assault in order to help stop the perpetrator.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Two recent studies from the University of Montreal have come out regarding disclosure behavior of childhood sexual abuse survivors. The first investigated how long it took the average child sexual abuse survivor to disclose their abuse, and the reasons why they may choose to stay silent. The second looked at survivors who delayed disclosing childhood sexual abuse and the possible long-term ramifications of this decision. Click here to read more about these studies.

Read MorePosted on Monday, February 1, 2010 at 11:05 AM

Mythbusting Monday:  Because women fantasize about rape, they secretly enjoy it.

Monday, January 25, 2010

A recent case in the United States has underscored just how willing people are to believe this myth to be true. A marine posed as his ex-girlfriend on Craigslist, and placed an ad looking for “a real aggressive man with no concern for women.” He provided a man who responded to the ad with her address, and one week later, this individual sexually assaulted her in her home.

Read MorePosted on Monday, January 25, 2010 at 10:55 AM

Mythbusting Monday: Sexual harassment is about sexual attraction

Monday, January 18, 2010

Newsweek published an article about the increased reporting of male-on-male sexual harassment. They correctly point out that harassment has nothing to do with the sexual orientation of the perpetrators – the majority of whom are heterosexual – and everything to do with the abuse of power and control.

Read MorePosted on Monday, January 18, 2010 at 12:28 PM

Mythbusting Monday: Intoxication is a defense for sexually assaulting someone

Monday, January 11, 2010

The media has widely reported that Eric Tillman had been intoxicated by over-the-counter medications before committing the sexual assault he pled guilty to. As a result of the medication, Tillman was described as being “definitely not himself” on the day of the assault, and acting “loopy.” This information creates the impression that his act was defensible, because he appears unable to have formed a real intent to do harm.

Read MorePosted on Monday, January 11, 2010 at 11:55 AM